More Project green - a decorative tile on my Welsh dresser. Can you see the white object in front of it? That's one of Basil's shed whiskers!

Thanks to everyone for their advice.I'm thinking about everything you've said and it all makes a lot of sense.

I read a great quote the other day - it said "Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die!"

I'm grateful that you all put up with me when, as they say in these parts, "I go off on one..."

I had the BEST day today at a wedding...absolutely great from start to finish :) I'll write more about it later.